How Do You Enjoy Your Life Without AW

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Kestral2
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Post by Kestral2 » Tue May 18, 2010 4:05 pm

Hi all,

In continuing with my personal commitment to be a Solutions-based thinker who given his situation comes up with solutions (as opposed to a Problems-based thinker who is someone who complains about problems but does nothing about it), I'd like to share and also ask how you enjoy life without AW. Notice I said 'enjoy'.

Here are some of the ways I enjoy life without AW:
- I live below my means and save well over 50% of my income
- I go to restaurants of my choosing and they actually serve good food (ever notice AW like to go to crappy restaurants that are expensively decorated 'for the atmosphere' but the food sucks and is overpriced)
- I come and go as I please (no one to answer to)
- I buy toys that I like (books, musical instruments, etc...) and no "boss" to ask first
- I structure my time in a way that gives me maximum tranquility and minimal drama
- I get to choose the music I play in my car
- I get to choose my car (and don't have to get a new one every few years)
- I don't have to kiss ass or compromise to make an AW happy at my own personal expense

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Post by lusitan » Tue May 18, 2010 4:21 pm

Here are some of the ways I enjoy life without WW/women:

- I save most of the money I get.
- Quite a bit of that money goes into buying books.
- I spend my free time sitting on a bench, inside a park which I grew near, reading.
- Sometimes I go to night clubs with my friends, to get a good insight to what a woman is.
- I listen to music. A lot. Around 9 hours of music per day, while reading at the same time.
- I play a lot of video games, though I spend an ungodly amount of time on the same game.
- I'm a Science fiction; I spend a good percentage of my life dwelling on Star wars.
- I get to walk everywhere I go to, as I don't have a car - No female to make me buy stuff.
- I take trips all the time through the bus and subway, to see my historic city.
- I grin all the time whenever I hear of yet another failed relationship.
- I play the role of wise Jedi Master, Yoda, when my non - cad friends get their heart broken.
- I Get to hear of all the drama women create, but stay away from it in all manner.
- I save so much money on the phone, its great joy. We don't have mandatory cell phone plans.
- Most of the time I'm completely unreachable; I've had friends complaining of that.
- I go months and months without seeing anyone if I don't have to.
- what do I do during those months? I live the life of a happy bachelor..
- I've seen more naked women than most males put together, thanks to porn.
- I don't have to worry about getting a woman pregnant because I don't get any.
- I can go anywhere without attracting the attention of a female because I dress badly
- I can look at a woman, if I fee like it - No girlfriend or wife.
- I can choose to do whatever with my money because I don't have kids.
- I don't have to spend money because, no women = no expenses.
- "High" quality condoms are expensive and I've always felt discomfort buying them.
- I don't feel any discomfort because I don't have to buy condoms.
- No need to go the doctor to check if I have stds.
- No stress in my life because I don't worry about my sexual health.
- No drama because I don't worry if a girlfriend is going to cheat on me(she will).
- No need to think if I'm satisfying her or what is she going to tell about me.
- I LOVE not caring about women anymore, therefore I don't care if I'm short.
-Because I don't care about women, I don't have to work out to compensate for my lack of height which is liberating.
Today I had a most interesting moment. I was at the grocery shop and there was this 20 something, tall, very busty(naturally) and she had a nice butt, cute face. If I was without porn, I'm sure I would have felt more of an impulse to act. From what my family says, she's loony and she walks around in her kitchen naked, if her stepfather isn't home.

Yap, that's how I enjoyed the specialness of being single and understanding the lack of magic around women's breasts and butts. She was probably looking for a sucker to get out of her parents house, and she saw a possible sucker(Lusitan); she had never seen me so I was fresh prey.

I simply ignored her, didn't look at her, basically avoided her and had a closed body language.

It felt awesome. I wonder how many guys she ignored before she got into "find sucker" mode.

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Post by Madsen » Wed May 19, 2010 12:27 am

- road trips to see friends and family
- taking time off work without worrying about supporting a family, also can be "underemployed" if desired
- easier to have roommates and share expenses
- less money spent on eating out, gifts, etc
- more time for hobbies and exercise
- motorcycle rides
- long weekends of camping, shooting, hiking, bbq's, lots of guy stuff
- more money saved for travel, retirement
- more time to spend reading, surfing the internet, watching dvds, playing games
- simple laundry procedure
- cooking healthy simple food for myself and enjoying the leftovers too
- working on projects around the house as I see fit, not according to some honey-do list
- decorating like I want

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Post by sjenner » Wed May 19, 2010 12:56 am

Easy- fitness, nice meals and good restaurants, tech toys, travel and no stress :)

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Post by superbad » Wed May 19, 2010 1:50 am

+1

- I live lean like i did in school
- I own my time and answer to no one
- I wake and sleep as i please
- I eat and bathe as i please
- I dress in jeans and t-shirts
- I read and learn constantly
- I design and build as hobbies
- I shoot bullets and arrows
- I watch horror movies
- I drive an old truck that i love
- I travel, do, buy as i please
- I play games and listen to music
- I exercise and meditate

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Post by edred30 » Wed May 19, 2010 12:01 pm

Good lists fellows. It is great to be in a position of simply NOT GIVING A SHIT. It is liberating. It brings happiness, peace of mind, contentment. Where ever I happen to be, I look healthy and confident, and I look happy, because I am. I like to wonder what the women are thinking when they see me. I suppose that many experience the subconscious desire to bring me crashing down the Earth..."doesn't he know that the only reason he was put on this earth is to please a woman". It is a great feeling to no longer need the approval and validation a woman "offers".

-Smoking pipes and cigars
-Living efficiently
-Eating really tasty superfoods
-Not buying a bunch of worhtless CRAP
-Relaxing at the sports club after a good workout (drinking coffee and reading and shooting the shit with the guys)
-Toying with women (whoops, I know this is a thread about NOT fooling with gals, but nonetheless it is a blast to toy with them in an aloof sort of way, all the while knowing I'm immune to their tricks and BS)

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Post by ghostforever » Wed May 19, 2010 3:22 pm

- Not having to be a wage slave and work inhumane hours to financially support a wife who would probably screw other men while I was working

- Outdoor activities like hiking, mountainclimbing, camping, fishing, biking, and sports (am planning to get into hunting within the next year or so)

- Indoor activities like meditating, reading, listening to music, playing video games, developing programs, working on my websites, exploring the world using Google Street View, surfing the net, and occasionally watching television if something good is on

- Traveling (10 countries, 48 states so far); this I am going to curb, however, because of the obvious discrimination that single men receive by travel industry workers and people in positions of authority (like customs officers who interrogate the shit out of people like me on the basis of traveling alone... notice how bitchy females traveling solo do not receive nearly the amount of scrutiny that someone like I always do)

- Trying new foods and restaurants

- Getting wasted whenever I feel like it; heck, I think I'm going to have a few beers this evening

- Saving, investing, and keeping more money to myself than I would if I were operating inside of the matrix

- Having full discretion over my discretionary income, with the exception of gifts for birthdays/holidays

- Getting to live on my own terms and play by my own rules

- Most importantly, being mentally liberated, which means that I do not give a shit about societal pressures (e.g. you're a loser if you're not a mortgage/rent slave past a certain age, your home must be a McMansion located in a prestigious zip code, you must drive a late-model car, you must dress to impress, etc.) or what AW/WW think.

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Post by Prodigal Son » Wed May 19, 2010 4:14 pm

Kestral,

I'm pretty much as the guys have already described above, some great posts so far! I live my life for me and I'm incredibly happy, hear of so much trouble attached to women and it makes me thankful that I'm free. I have peace and quiet in my life, but more importantly? I have time, so much time to do what I want when I want and there's no one to stop me from living my life for me. I seem to be the only person where I am that's willing to be different unfortunately, most follow like sheep and make the same mistakes a thousand million times, just maybe one day they'll wake up and realise that they've been sold a scam. A wise man once said to me "Son, the only time you should ever be with a woman is if you're going to do the deed" but being a Happy Bachelor who values my health? I wouldn't even entertain those women, they're best avoided.

Take care,
~ Prodigal Son :)

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Post by Kestral2 » Thu May 20, 2010 12:30 pm

Thanks everyone for the great answers - for those who made lists I'm giving a +1 (I think we only get one Exalt every number of hours, I'll +1 until everyone has been given a +1)

Lustian I'll be giving you an extra +1 because your list was so comprehensive and had some hum-dingers in there, ie:
- I don't have to spend money because, no women = no expenses.
- No need to go the doctor to check if I have stds.
- No need to think if I'm satisfying her or what is she going to tell about me.

lovekraft

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Post by lovekraft » Sat May 22, 2010 8:43 pm

I get to go into the deepest recesses of my mind, those forgotten insights that identify who I am, and will be.

Superficiality is not for the faint of heart, as keeping those deep bass pulses quiet requires resilience.

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Post by donttreadonme » Mon Jun 07, 2010 7:12 am

While sex, cuddling and all that might give you high degree of happiness, you usually have to sacrifice other little things which give happiness as well - and the little things add up! Here's my list:

- I get to enjoy a pipe or fine cigar along with a glass of scotch in perfect silence whenever I choose to.
- I alone am the master of my budget, which leads to me being able to spend it efficiently, leading to a life of modest luxury at a very low cost.
- I can devote as much time, effort and money to my #1 hobby (miniature wargaming) as I see fit. Experience shows that women absolutely HATE that hobby.
- I can lean back and enjoy the dark comedy that is today's society, instead of being part of it.
- I can eat what I want, when I want. Personally I don't have a routine when it comes to eating, so adding another person and therefore the necessity to plan would annoy me.
- I can have entirely lazy, unproductive days in which I do nothing else but play video games, if I want.
- Absolutely no drama whatsoever.
- Reduced pressure: My income only needs to feed myself - no chance of surprises (like a pregnancy) spiking my need for money.

In short: I could wear used underwear as a hat, just because I feel like it - and no-one's there to complain ;)

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Post by cobrared1993 » Tue Jun 08, 2010 8:50 pm

The common thread that seems to run through all of us is that we really take the time to learn and acquire knowledge.

I'm an avid book reader myself (I collect them) and it's really hard to submerge yourself in books, and learning, when you have a GF. In the beginning they think it's cute, but after a while a woman will start to hate you for it if you spend to much time reading books or if you don't make enough money to justify spending so much time reading books.

So the way I look at it, we all chose to give women the walking papers because you can't serve two masters.

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Post by Madsen » Tue Jun 08, 2010 9:00 pm

Yeah I've always bumped into that with gf's --- I'll be really into a book and just content to sit and read for a couple hours after work or on a weekend, and they feel neglected. Sorry hun, can't you watch Dancing With The Stars or something while I'm doing this? :)

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Post by lusitan » Tue Jun 08, 2010 10:13 pm

[quote]The common thread that seems to run through all of us is that we really take the time to learn and acquire knowledge.

I'm an avid book reader myself (I collect them) and it's really hard to submerge yourself in books, and learning, when you have a GF. In the beginning they think it's cute, but after a while a woman will start to hate you for it if you spend to much time reading books or if you don't make enough money to justify spending so much time reading books.

So the way I look at it, we all chose to give women the walking papers because you can't serve two masters.[/quote]

I got an ex into a book. She knew how much I loved the book. Turns out, she loved the book but was jealous of my love for the book.

You just can't win with women. Do what she wants, she's sad. Don't do what she wants, she's sad.

Books are far more entertaining and educative than a women can ever be. To my left, I have the classics. To the right, I have books written by modern writers. No girlfriend = lots of money to spend on books.

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Post by edred30 » Wed Jun 09, 2010 8:34 am

Spock: SPOT ON. I was once with a woman who enjoyed my knowledge, but she didn't like it when I was reading.

I remember back in the 80s, when I was entering college, I must have heard this a thousand time (usually from female teachers and professors, but also manginas): Females have better verbal and written communication skills than men. What horseshit.

Once I was trying to explain to a woman some basic evolutionary biology/psychology principles (such as the male preference for a female waist-to-hip ratio of .65 to .7 and how it was shaped by natural and sexual selection). Of course in the process I had to explain the basic concept of natural selection, how it works, etc. After all of that, she says "oh, that's (the male preference for curvy young females) just modern culture and patriarchy telling men what to want and it's not like that in other cultures and wasn't like that in the past when men liked fat women."

I tried explaing that studies have shown that men from all cultures prefer curvy young women, etc, etc. Logic and studies and science had no effect.

WOMEN ARE IMPERVIOUS TO REASON. It isn't in them.

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Post by cobrared1993 » Thu Jun 10, 2010 9:25 pm

[quote]
[quote]The common thread that seems to run through all of us is that we really take the time to learn and acquire knowledge.

I'm an avid book reader myself (I collect them) and it's really hard to submerge yourself in books, and learning, when you have a GF. In the beginning they think it's cute, but after a while a woman will start to hate you for it if you spend to much time reading books or if you don't make enough money to justify spending so much time reading books.

So the way I look at it, we all chose to give women the walking papers because you can't serve two masters.[/quote]

Any man who is honest enough to admit it will tell you that self improvement is the first thing out the window if you're in a relationship.
Women don't want their men with their noses stuck in a book, taking evening continuing education courses or even watching educational TV.

They want the man's exclusive attention when they get home and focused on the honeydo lists she comes up with or spending time listening to her endlessly blather on about totally meaningless topics such as what her other friends are doing/dressing like/ who they are seeing etc.

I'm like you Cobra I love reading and studying, I have about 2000 fiction books and about 1000 nonfiction books and about 250 scientific texts and 100 computer books. Whenever I'm not studying to improve my mind I'm always reading casually to improve my comprehension and communications skills. I'm always thinking about various topics all the time and find boredom to be torture.

99% of what most women read is complete and utter crap, mindless tripe such as romance novels or fashion and entertainment/gossip magazines. The stuff aimed at most women isn't worth the paper it's printed on, I've rarely seen a woman actually reading a serious newspaper let alone a regular non-romance novel. God forbid they read something weighty like Orwell's 1984 let alone Dickens.

Most women don't like to think(their brain hurts), they certainly almost never philosophize or ponder deeper concepts. Everything has to be superficial and quick. I have nothing but contempt for those who tell me in no uncertain terms that women have superior verbal and academic skills and they mean it.

I have yet to meet a woman who understands what the word eschatological means or can rationally discuss the basis of the Socratic method and has any semblance of critical thinking skills.

AW's literally are a time and money sink, aside from sexual release for the man, they hardly give much in return, they certainly don't do much housework, don't add that much to the bottom line and expect men to take the blame for everything.

Men built civilization and men are the ones who move it forward should they so choose. Women can't even maintain current civilization let alone invent or create something new. All women do is sit back and demand more and more "comforts" and conveniences and will blame men for being stupid if it isn't quickly provided for them.

Stay away from AWs, they add zero value to men's lives these days. [/quote]

Awesome post and I agree on ALL COUNTS!

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Post by Newman » Thu Jun 10, 2010 10:32 pm

Sorry...I've been meaning to post so I hope you're still reading this thread.

First, pretty much everything already mentioned here sums up, in one way or another, how I feel or think.

For me, simple things in life are the most enjoyable. Here are some things that make life worth living and make me a happy bachelor (sorry if these are redundant)

* Coming home to an empty, silent condo every night of my life and doing whatever the fuck I want.

* Cooking 100% of my own meals - not having to get fast food because I spend all of my fucking time raising kiddies and otherwise not having the time to cook for myself. Similarly, I also RESEARCH recipes - much like I research cases for my law practice.

* Listening to my iPod while surfing the net or while tossing some darts at my dart board (I love playing darts) either by myself or with a good buddy of mine

* Reading posts on this Happy Bachelor forum.

* Visiting my parents in the suburbs (I live in a busy city, so it's nice to get out to the burbs on the weekend) and, while there, putting the top down on my convertible, turning on the satellite radio and sipping a few cocktails (or more than a few cocktails)

* Working out on a regular basis (I go 7 days a week).

* More reading posts on this Happy Bachelor forum

* Spending my money on whatever the fuck I want to. I bought a sports car a couple of years ago. The only thing I 'consulted' was my checkbook - and it said "A o.k." I didn't have to worry that I wouldn't have enough money to buy diapers or to pay that monthly finance charge for an overpriced wedding ring for some bitch who would end up divorcing me anyway - and still getting my money.

* NEVER having to be stressed that I need to incessantly worry about some other person's happiness (wife, kids, parents-in-law, etc).

* Knowing that if I want to quit my job I do not have to worry that a wife will trash me constantly into getting another job.

Oh, and did I mention...reading posts on this Happy Bachelor forum?

This is a fantastic forum and it is always in the back of my mind - sometimes also at the forefront of my mind. While I do not always post here, I am always reading the other great insights posted here.

I really enjoyed reading your question and also answering it. I think a lot of these things just come naturally - meaning the things that make me happy and why I don't give women a second thought.

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Post by superbad » Thu Jun 10, 2010 10:49 pm

+1 ... great post.

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Post by Newman » Thu Jun 10, 2010 10:54 pm

@ superbad: Thanks bro. It just came naturally off the top of my head. After all, it's what we do for a living.

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Post by Madsen » Fri Jun 11, 2010 7:42 pm

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Wait, are the cocktails while driving? :lol: :lol:
(no judgment --- around these parts people often measure distance in beers not miles ;) )

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