Beyond the Anger...why ghosting is the true goal of GYOW.

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Post by Grenade001 » Sun Oct 27, 2013 1:32 pm

sjenner wrote:Agree- for me, building a high net personal worth, good health and personal freedom is the real benefit of bachelorhood. I can still travel and bang hot foreign women without the burden of Marriage 1.0/2.0, etc.
I read a lot on self-improvement and how to make cash and trying to kick ass in all fields. It goes without saying that we are generally pretty resourceful people and I will make an effort to reach my potential and "be the change I want to see" (as cliche as that sounds). The best revenge is to live well and that is what I intend to do.

I watched an ad for the lottery today, where it said "What would you do with $22 million?" "Travel to Brazil? U.S.?" It made me realise, I could go to Brazil within 3 months anyway (subject to no major expenses that would derail my saving plan). The point is to not wait until retirement or a big windfall to start living. LIVE NOW!
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Post by spocksdisciple » Sun Oct 27, 2013 5:19 pm

Mike_qz wrote:
space wrote:Ego is ur self-image or how u see ur self. Who controls how u see ur self? U do. Stable, healthy ego comes from experiences that let u know thyself. Vanity is how u need others to see u positively. How do u control vanity? By having a confident and healthy ego.

I think space made a very interesting point, many times ego is misunderstood with vanity and narcissism.

A healthy ego can actually let u go on a healthy *I don't give a ..." about what other people think of you, and I guess that's the main point of going your own way.
In moderation I agree that a relatively healthy ego kept in check is a good thing. The problem with western society and especially in American society is that there is no middle ground. This society encourages people to feed their egos all the time. To the point where narcissism has become an epidemic disease among women and many men also do not know how to keep their egos in check.

We as a society have forgotten how to develop a healthy balance in our personalities, it's like the obesity epidemic and the rise of the obese man and woman as the norm. We also have people with obese egos(narcissists) with the same unhealthy psychological diet, again it's women leading the way in this area of endeavor as well.

I view GYOW and ghosting as a natural progression, the same as eating a healthy diet and keeping in shape, a healthy ego is all but invisible to most people. Like a healthy human, you don't really see the work that goes into maintaining good health and fitness.

I would dare to hazard a guess that most MGTOWs are not the "norm" when in comes to their physical health as well as their psychological health. Most MGTOWs realize or are beginning to realize the value of their own lives, as such I think many such men balance good physical as well as psychological health.
Aside from the newly minted red pill men, who are still trying to establish an equilibrium in their lives, I think most older, "veteran" MGHOWs are more healthy on many fronts than your average blue piller/mangina/white knight.
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Post by Mike_qz » Mon Oct 28, 2013 5:46 am

spocksdisciple wrote:
Mike_qz wrote:
space wrote:Ego is ur self-image or how u see ur self. Who controls how u see ur self? U do. Stable, healthy ego comes from experiences that let u know thyself. Vanity is how u need others to see u positively. How do u control vanity? By having a confident and healthy ego.

I think space made a very interesting point, many times ego is misunderstood with vanity and narcissism.

A healthy ego can actually let u go on a healthy *I don't give a ..." about what other people think of you, and I guess that's the main point of going your own way.
In moderation I agree that a relatively healthy ego kept in check is a good thing. The problem with western society and especially in American society is that there is no middle ground. This society encourages people to feed their egos all the time. To the point where narcissism has become an epidemic disease among women and many men also do not know how to keep their egos in check.

We as a society have forgotten how to develop a healthy balance in our personalities, it's like the obesity epidemic and the rise of the obese man and woman as the norm. We also have people with obese egos(narcissists) with the same unhealthy psychological diet, again it's women leading the way in this area of endeavor as well.

I view GYOW and ghosting as a natural progression, the same as eating a healthy diet and keeping in shape, a healthy ego is all but invisible to most people. Like a healthy human, you don't really see the work that goes into maintaining good health and fitness.

I would dare to hazard a guess that most MGTOWs are not the "norm" when in comes to their physical health as well as their psychological health. Most MGTOWs realize or are beginning to realize the value of their own lives, as such I think many such men balance good physical as well as psychological health.
Aside from the newly minted red pill men, who are still trying to establish an equilibrium in their lives, I think most older, "veteran" MGHOWs are more healthy on many fronts than your average blue piller/mangina/white knight.
Very well said.

Your point on "veteran" MGHOW is actually a consequence, I think, of going your own way: since you are doing this for yourself and rely on yourself, you get to see the areas where you need to improve in order to feel better about yourself and therefore enjoy even more your existence as a human being.

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Post by Janus » Tue Jan 14, 2014 9:57 am

I'll be vague. Is there someone GHOW, who has realised his role in society, as opposed to popular belief that he must wall himself from it (don't take it too literary or imagine an extreme cases. I'm just using word vague to the fullest here), taking in consideration, that he didn't lose to his ego that would lead to his lynching/mobing beforehand?

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Post by Ghoster135 » Tue Jan 14, 2014 5:29 pm

Spock you hit the nail on the head. Ghosting is the ability to be yourself in society and to handle yourself in a way that is how you view being a healthy man and what that all entails. It doesn't matter if you view that being a man is a biker or as a classic 1940's gentleman. What does matter is your actions in every day society and your ability to keep the negative traits to a minimum. Sometimes, you have to be forceful and an asshole to make your point and that's okay. Most of the time, you should be positive and not an asshole.
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Post by nomore » Thu Mar 06, 2014 4:15 am

This post really hits home because I've been stuck in Stage 2 since I first swallowed the red pill about four years ago.

About a month ago, I began realizing that there is another stage beyond just swallowing the red pill. It's funny because if you had given me another six months to think things through, I would have written a post very similar to this one.

Many men never reach Stage 3 because the red pill is so toxic that it burns your insides as your digest it. Everything you've ever known or been taught is one big lie. That can make people angry. It made me angry.

Then about a month ago I realized that swallowing the red pill was probably the best thing to ever happen to me. I'm a free man. I have time ahead of me to do the things I want to do in life. I'm not living for a female or for the government. If I want to sleep in on Saturday morning, then work out, then read a great book … there is no one there to nag me. There is no honey-do list. I'm free. This is awesome.

The other reason I think men struggle to move into Stage 3 is because it's a scary place. I realize now that I've gone Stage 3 I'm completely ghost. I'm gone. I'm off the map. There is probably nothing that can ever bring me back. I think some people don't reach Stage 3 because they either don't want to take responsibility for their life or they're hoping there is something that can bring them back to the blue pill world.

So if you're stuck in Stage 2, maybe you need to stay there for awhile, as you work through some things. I know I could not move directly from Red Pill - Stage2 - Stage 3. I needed to work through some things. But men - don't be afraid to move on. Your life belongs to you - not the government or some female. This is an terrifying, enlightening and, ultimately, liberating and awesome discovery.

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Post by phonebook » Sat Mar 29, 2014 8:03 pm

I'm somewhere on the border between Stage 2 and Stage 3 nowadays, I think. I've had spurts of anger which did manifest on some of the MGTOW forums. When I lurked the old MGTOW forums before then, over the past year, I couldn't go the day without being redhot livid. I still have the broken pencils and a broken computer mouse on my desk to prove it. I just don't stay angry for very long now. Once the initial anger passes through, I usually end up seeing white and realising that I should really start getting back to whatever projects I'm working on and just getting on with my life. I'm also getting angry less and less frequently, which is nice. I have to agree that whilst anger is a very good short-term motivational fuel, eventually one will start having to rely on the afterburners.

But perhaps I'm much younger than most men (mid-20s) and never got shafted, which may explain the relatively short period of time on Stage 2. I think it's up to each individual man to figure it out though, I'm not going to patronize anyone and since I'm one of the youngest men around here with few life experiences, I'm in no position anyways.

I'm also learning to let go of things and trying to develop a healthier ego. I've been wrong about a lot of things in life, and it's really no big deal as long as the consequences of being wrong were not disastrous and one can get up from it and still have the energy to continue to live and find a way.

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Post by zed » Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:24 pm

spocksdisciple wrote:In moderation I agree that a relatively healthy ego kept in check is a good thing. The problem with western society and especially in American society is that there is no middle ground. This society encourages people to feed their egos all the time. To the point where narcissism has become an epidemic disease among women and many men also do not know how to keep their egos in check.

We as a society have forgotten how to develop a healthy balance in our personalities, it's like the obesity epidemic and the rise of the obese man and woman as the norm. We also have people with obese egos(narcissists) with the same unhealthy psychological diet, again it's women leading the way in this area of endeavor as well.
I thought about replying to this line of thought before, but didn't quite have the motivation.

Personally, I think it is useful to think of the term "ego" in the classic Freudian sense - that it is the mediator between the animalistic Id and the moral/spiritual/social consciousness of the superego. The ego keeps the Id in check, by feeding it just enough to keep it from becoming desperately dangerously ravenous, but at the same time rationing it's food.

The Id is the source of all our energy. We hunt because we are hungry, not as a hobby. We fornicate not because of how good it feels, but due to every cell in our body screaming out to continue our genetic line.

Male preying mantises and black widow spiders have a bit more instinctive understanding of the biology of maleness than human males do, because they have neither an ego nor a superego.

I would describe the situation SD describes above as "Kill the superego, unleash the id."

The ego no longer has to balance the animal appetites if the id with the need for social acceptance in order to keep the body alive. In pre-modern days, social ostracization was a death sentence. Without the commercial culture in which all functions formerly provided by family and tribe have been outsourced to the market, it was a rare individual who could survive more than a short period of time entirely on his (or her) own.

So, my sense is that it is the atrophy of the superego, and the usurpation of the ego by the id, which is the real source of the problem. In spiritual traditions other than Christianity, the progression from satiety to indolence to debauchery is well understood.
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Post by superbad » Mon Jun 30, 2014 5:00 am

My 2 cents: 1) converse about what you like, 2) don't worry too much about labels, and 3) some good goals are health, happiness, hobbies, career, and financial/personal freedom (see "Escaping the Matrix").

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Post by inplainsight » Tue Nov 18, 2014 8:27 pm

this is my favorite post on this forum.

after reading it, I decided to join and start making contributions.

thanks for sharing man
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Post by lasttry » Wed May 06, 2015 5:20 pm

Not only does anger prevent a person from moving forward in life, it is an embarrassment to those of us who have moved forward to be associated with angry men. The taunt "crybaby losers who can't get laid" rings only to true for these guys.

Anger is for children and savages. Anger and fear are always associated with adrenaline, which is only useful for situations involving immediate physical threats where adrenaline helps to maximize bodily response. For the complex and long-term difficulties of civilized life, the appropriate tool is cold unemotional reason. Spock-like reason, if you will.

If reason reveals that women, marriage and children reduce rather than increase a man's happiness, then he should stay away from women, and that is difficult. Heterosexual men are conditioned in early childhood to see women as the only acceptable sexual outlet. These men will feel like failures without women, as long as that conditioning is in place, as long as they have a sex drive, even a feeble sex drive.

For those who can afford it, P4P is a way to reduce the feeling of failure. My own approach was to attack the social conditioning at it's root, so that masturbation is almost fully satisfying for me as a sexual outlet. I wrote almost, because I'm not and probably never will be at the point of truly not preferring sex with a woman if I can get it on my terms. But I am and have been most of my life in the position of not really caring that much about real sex, because women don't and never have stood in the way of my sexual pleasure. On the contrary, I long ago learned how to get way more pleasure masturbating than I ever got from girlfriends, including those girlfriends who were nymphomaniac porn-start types in bed. Mostly what women offer Mr sexually is validation that I'm a real man rather than a pitiful wanker, and at age 54 I'm way past the point of being seriously bothered by lack of such validation.

To reiterate what I've written elsewhere in this forum, fully satisfying masturbation requires practice of sexual kung fu (literally, sexual "discipline"). Avoid peak orgasms in favor of valley orgasms. Imagine you are the women at least part of the time while masturbating, so as to balance male and female energies. In general, develop your female side, since otherwise you will feel incomplete without women in your life. MGTOWs have a lot to learn from homosexuals in this last respect.

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Post by sjenner » Fri May 08, 2015 5:10 am

Martial arts, prayer and meditation, healthy diet and learning help reduce anger. Let's face the facts, most people in the USA are stupid dull brainwashed idiots that you really cannot change.

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Post by GuitarMatt » Sat May 09, 2015 10:52 pm

I made a half intro. But have been on MGTOW forums for two years. A Happy Bachelor was literally what I WAS before I got back into a live-in relationship for the first time in years before it temporarily almost sucked my soul from me (thanks to hard drugs I used to do).

Anyway, Spock, thank you for creating something beyond that Stage 2 bullshit that you THANKFULLY point out in this legendary RP thread of yours.

Being an active member of the GYOW forum and having just joined MGTOW HQ, a post like this gives me hope about the red pill path not being one where I am surrounded by the proverbial Fat Lesbiens of the Red Pill world.

As exellent as Jagr is (I as a fan of his when he basically joined Nacho's forum at the same time I did), I feel that it gets to be absurd hearing "all women are like that" from some 30 year old VIRGIN on that forum.

While there certainly are a few specs of hope in the phrase AWALT (all NAWALTs can turn into an AWALT at the bitter end), like Matt Forney said, to paraphrase, "it's ridiculous to hear some incel lecture the world about hypergamy and solipsism."

Amen. I have had enough of hearing the stage 2 folks whine and whine and whine and whine! It's ridiculous man. It's like they hate masturbate to any Jezebel wannabe article. As if THAT piece of crap writing will help the feminzazis further make things more anti-male than they are.

Thanka for the HB concept. It is needed to graduate from the MGTOW concept. Hell, MGTOW is probably tainted by the Zionists of the world to further their anti-white-male agenda anyway.

Anyway, I know it pisses MGTOWs off when one of their own proclaims they have outgrown that paradigm. But is IS what it is. Just exactly as Spock said, Stage 2 is no place to be stuck at (to paraphrase).

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Post by 1 Cor 7:1 » Sun May 10, 2015 8:24 am

lasttry wrote:Not only does anger prevent a person from moving forward in life, it is an embarrassment to those of us who have moved forward to be associated with angry men. The taunt "crybaby losers who can't get laid" rings only to true for these guys.
Certainly some spend their lives feeding off anger and going nowhere, but some men have been hurt far more than you and I: I wouldn't begrudge them their anger. And there are definite stages to escaping the blue-pill Matrix, of which anger is certainly one, and I wouldn't criticise men who are currently in that phase. Of course the goal (as the title of the posts suggests) is to move beyond the anger stage, but it is not always easy.
Anger is for children and savages.
That's an oversimplification. Some things merit anger. Some things don't. Genuine injustice is something which any morally and emotionally healthy person should be angry about.
If reason reveals that women, marriage and children reduce rather than increase a man's happiness, then he should stay away from women, and that is difficult. Heterosexual men are conditioned in early childhood to see women as the only acceptable sexual outlet. These men will feel like failures without women, as long as that conditioning is in place, as long as they have a sex drive, even a feeble sex drive.
That's true enough. It's a matter of seeing through the lie and breaking one's conditioning. Which is easier said than done.
For those who can afford it, P4P is a way to reduce the feeling of failure. My own approach was to attack the social conditioning at it's root
Yours is a better approach than trying to alleviate the symptoms with hookers. If nothing else, it's cheaper...
Mostly what women offer Mr sexually is validation that I'm a real man rather than a pitiful wanker, and at age 54 I'm way past the point of being seriously bothered by lack of such validation.
Many men never reach that stage, sadly. Again, the social conditioning is strong. Shaming men who don't have sex is something of a sport in the West. Which brings me to this comment...
GuitarMatt wrote: As exellent as Jagr is (I as a fan of his when he basically joined Nacho's forum at the same time I did), I feel that it gets to be absurd hearing "all women are like that" from some 30 year old VIRGIN on that forobsessedum.
I get your point but why the caps? Our gynocentric, sex-crazed society wants to embarrass men for being virgins. We shouldn't follow suit. And yes, again, I do understand your argument, but -- reiterating what @lasttry said -- males are socially conditioned to regard themselves as failures if they are not having regular sex with a woman (especially if they've never had sex with a woman). This conditioning is harmful: it keeps men in bondage and makes women ever more entitled and obnoxious. For the sake of both sexes, we should work to undermine it. And although I don't know this Jagr fellow (I avoid the other forums because they always overdo the anger), surely nowadays even a 30-year-old virgin with eyes in his head can see what has happened to Western women. It's reached the stage where many men are realising they don't have to eat the sh*t sandwich to know what it is. Personally, I wish I'd gone my own way when I was 30. It would have saved me much trouble...
Hell, MGTOW is probably tainted by the Zionists of the world to further their anti-white-male agenda anyway.
Interesting comment. Who do you think these Zionists are, and what is their ultimate goal?

(If your answer is involved and you're concerned it'll be OT, you can PM me -- or maybe start a separate thread.)
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Post by spocksdisciple » Sun May 10, 2015 5:42 pm

Whether or not a man is a virgin is not materially significant, a man's past sexual history should never be seen as any sort of qualification for discussions about what issues are important to men's lives. Otherwise we end up with another arena where men's notch count is used as an epeen measure of authority and we begin to sound like a PUA forum.

For men on this board their eyes should always be on the horizon, looking forwards into the future, not looking down at their shoe laces or constantly backwards, into their past.

However, 1 Cor has a point about "justified" anger and the reasons why it persists as long as it does and why it will always be a factor in some men's lives.

The point I tried to make with this thread is that anger ultimately serves no purpose on the long term. Yes, anger can be a great motivator in the beginning, like high octane racing fuels it can really "overpower" your engine, but like racing fuels, there is a cost in that it prematurely wears your engine out. Yes, this is a simplistic analogy but anger is a fuel, it can be used in the short term to benefit a man, but it can also slowly destroy him.

I've been reading some very long time posters on the other MGTOW forums, and some of them have been deeply wounded and hurt, some nearly destroyed both physically and mentally. But the one thing I noted is that some of them eventually do recover but others haven't changed at all.

It's these others who have become addicted to being constantly angry and constantly depressed about their lives, wanting revenge and "justice". And yet it's these men themselves who are maintaining their own prisons, long after the time when they should've left it behind and moved forward with their lives.

And no this isn't a "man up" statement I'm trying to make, many men do heal and move on with their lives after a devastating blow to their lives, others however seek to reinforce the walls of their prison and are determined to remain an inmate.

Some men are in fact regressive, in that they manage to leave their prison behind and walk the road right back onto the plantation!
For some men, the idea of ghosting is one of horrible loneliness and isolation, they think they'll become the male version of the crazy cat lady.

I want to be clear that when I use the term Phases of MGTOW evolution, this isn't a referral to the currently popular and misleading term "levels of MGTOW", which I find to be an erroneous concept, not applicable to the MGTOW worldview. The Phases I outlined are an convenient framework to measure progress on the MGTOW journey, but like scaffolding on a building project it's only a temporary framework on which to construct and illustrate the concepts. The "Phases" are only mile markers on the road, they aren't what matters in your MGTOW journey.

Too many men these days throw the MGTOW term around and "proudly" display it in their statements to the world (like a badge of an exclusive organization) without ever actually trying to understand and accept the GYOW part of the term.

Currently, ghosting seems to be an out of vogue concept in the MGTOW world and I'm not sure why except that there are newcomers to the MGTOWsphere who seem to have an activist agenda and are trying to sell their activism to others and ghosting is an concept which would not gain these activists anything.
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Post by Foresight » Sun May 10, 2015 6:23 pm

Good post Spock. I think if people feeling that they are representing MGTOW helps/inspires them to make good choices then that is a positive thing. I think MGTOW sites and forums are good for keeping oneself informed and to get some non-blue pill content into your diet of social conditioning.

However, like you say, it is not good to sit there on a MGTOW forum all day getting angry. The system is what it is, there is no point putting an 'evil face' on it - doing that is a blue pill mentality move in itself. Educate yourself, but use that to help you enjoy life as a happy bachelor rather than getting down or angry about the information.

Also agree that no one should worry about proving that their ghosting or red pill life is brilliant to other people. Stay humble and don't flaunt what you think are the good things in your life. People are more likely to envy & resent you than respect you. Not because this world is evil, just because that's the way it is.

And yeah, I think trying to force MGTOW stuff into the mainstream will do more harm than good.

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Post by inplainsight » Mon Aug 17, 2015 2:30 pm

A post by bjs007 asks members to list their favorite life changing books.

While this particular post by spocksdisciple is not a book, I still consider it the best post on this site to date (even with posts by the likes of saint christopher in oregon on this board).


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Post by GuitarMatt » Tue Mar 08, 2016 2:50 pm

This thread is one of my all time red pill/MGTOW threads. Because I have spent years posting daily on MGTOW forums. Yet I have this nagging feeling that I am spinning my wheels and that it is time to spend my precious time doing other things.

Coming to HB in a sense is kind of like using methadone to get off of heroin. I can't just walk out on the manosphere just yet! It be too much of a shock to the system.

I like the fact this forum exists. I feel it's in my best interests to ween myself off of MGTOW forums. I don't need to hear about feminist number 5 million or whatever.

At aome point, it's a skipping record. I am glad to be on this forum. I'm glad you speak of this anger issue. Anger can be a great motivater to turn lemons into lemonade. But at some point, as was said by a guy on another forum, "Anger makes a great ladder, but a lousy floor!"

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Post by sjenner » Sun Apr 03, 2016 6:55 pm

Indeed well since new guys come to learn about MGTOW the same issues resurface time and again so that is to be expected. Of course, now the shift is toward male friendly self development topics like health, fitness, and building a business or revenue stream versus pure feminist bashing.

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Post by phathack » Sun Apr 03, 2016 10:24 pm

sjenner wrote:Indeed well since new guys come to learn about MGTOW the same issues resurface time and again so that is to be expected. Of course, now the shift is toward male friendly self development topics like health, fitness, and building a business or revenue stream versus pure feminist bashing.
I leave the feminist bashing and twat stories for other MGTOW forums.


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Post by inplainsight » Thu Jun 09, 2016 11:00 am

As I have said many times, it was this post that compelled me to become a grateful member of this amazing community. At this point in my life, I believe I am in stage 2, but I am catching glimpses of the beauty and serenity of stage 3. My own teacher (of an entirely different subject matter) often warns about how the superiority complex is the biggest obstacle to true growth.

This is the only forum I am active on. I don't really have the burning anger or frustration any longer. I rarely even interact with women or men any longer and when I do, as far as I can tell, they seem okay with me. Stage 3, here I come!
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Post by Borisblackmilk » Sat Jun 25, 2016 8:00 am

SD, you've crystalised a lost man here into action.

Sure, anger is cool. I love revenge too, fucking best dish I could ever hope to cook. Apathy, moving into ghost...

Then... this. The crystallisation. The realisation. There is MORE to life than just being eternally pissed at the machine.

My God man, time for some Richard Cheese and Lounge Against the Machine! No woman in her RIGHT mind would listen to it, yet I love how lounge does Down With the Sickness!

Interesting times? Hell, curse you too Chinaman, this is the shit!

If I ever run into you, I owe you a bottle of something expensive, tasty, over 100 proof. You enjoy that shit now.

Thanks for ripping my head out of the Goddamn noose of raging against the machine. The machine can go fuck itself. I've been running rings around it for years.
"It's the women that Boris rejects, that makes Boris The Best..."

Rejected over 260 women in twelve years, and counting.

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Re: Beyond the Anger...why ghosting is the true goal of GYOW.

Post by sjenner » Sun Jul 31, 2016 2:44 am

I'm loving myself lost in pursuits of self development and past anger. Life is too short to dwell on what cannot be changed.

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Re: Beyond the Anger...why ghosting is the true goal of GYOW.

Post by dblsys » Thu Aug 18, 2016 5:05 pm

Anger is by and large a useless emotion in the modern world. It can be interpreted as a correct response to some morally outrageous act like child abuse or genocide but beyond that is is just not helpfull to us as men.

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